Couples therapy
Therapy
for couples
What you experience, what you feel
You're suffering. You feel powerless to solve your problems, which you experience as a dead end, a failure.
You feel alone and at a loss to understand what you're going through.
If the other has disappointed me, betrayed me, who am I? Maybe I'm worthless, not up to the job?
You feel a long way from the dreams and promises of the beginning of your relationship. You're angry, caught up in the injustice you're experiencing. Yet you want to make it work.
You may be experiencing infidelity, bereavement, difficulties with your children or family. You're caught up in the speed of life and routine.
You no longer dare to express yourself truthfully.
Anyway he/she speaks for me, I don't feel like arguing anymore and facing a wall. I have the impression that he/she hears blue when I say red. I'm too angry to talk, I'm too angry at myself, I'm too angry at him/her. I'd like him/her to understand that, to change his/her behavior, but he/she won't listen.
I help you to :
- to hear you, to understand what you really want
- translate what you want to say so that the other person can hear you
- to hear the other from another space, to rediscover them
My goal
Over the course of the sessions, we'll help you regain the confidence to speak for yourself and decide together what is best for your relationship.
The sessions
Interview for two
I suggest that couples either come together for a first session, or that they each come indivudually for a session before starting as a couple. Indeed, some people need process what they're experiencing and be heard alone before talking as a couple.
Individual interviews
Your partner can't come and you'd like to do something for your relationship. You'd like to be listened to alone to clarify what you're going through.
You need someone to believe in what you're going through, to take the measure of it.
When one member of a couple moves, it moves the whole couple.
Rates
- Individual : 60€ / 1h
- Couple: €70 / 1 hour-1 hour 15 minutes